I actually never thought that I will write on this topic. I came up with this topic after researching. This idea was triggered by Mr. David Elliott from The single dad’s guide to life when on my post “How to deal with a broken heart” he commented this… Mr. Elliott is a great person with lovely ideas and I have been a great fan of his earlier works as well.
The names psychopath and sociopath may sound similar because both of them have similar qualities but yet they are different from each other. A psychopath is a person experiencing an endless mental issue with unusual or vicious social conduct and a sociopath is a person with an identity issue showing itself in extraordinary standoffish states of mind and conduct.
Psychopathy can be thought of as a more extreme type of
sociopathy with more manifestations. In this manner, all psychopaths are
sociopaths yet sociopaths are not really psychopaths. According to the
introduction of one with psychopathy or sociopathy varies. As per Kelly
psychopath is callous, yet charming. He or she will con and manipulate others
with charisma and intimidation and can effectively mimic feelings to present as
“normal” to society. The psychopath is organized in their criminal
thinking and behavior, and can maintain good emotional and physical control,
displaying little to no emotional or autonomic arousal, even under situations
that most would find threatening or horrifying. The psychopath is keenly aware
that what he or she is doing is wrong, but does not care.
“Conversely, the sociopath is less organized in his or her demeanor; he or she might be nervous, easily agitated, and quick to display anger. A sociopath is more likely to spontaneously act out in inappropriate ways without thinking through the consequences. Compared to the psychopath, the sociopath will not be able to move through society committing callous crimes as easily, as they can form attachments and often have ‘normal temperaments.’ . . .”
As per the Society for the Study of Psychopathy, psychopath characteristics includes:
Absence of regret
Absence of compassion
Absence of profound enthusiastic connections
Heedless hazard taking
However, a sociopath is diagnosed at the age of 18 and their traits include:
Rehashed infringement of the law
Inescapable lying and double dealing
Heedless negligence for security of self or others
Steady flightiness in work and family conditions
Absence of regret
Over Protective towards the one they care for
At last, I would just say that Psychopaths and Sociopaths both are harmful to society. Despite the fact that psychopaths and sociopaths both are fit for carrying out terrible wrongdoings, however, sociopaths are caring about them with whom they have a bond. They will harm themselves but not the person they love or care about. Sociopaths befriend very fewer people and the one they trust they protect them with all their life even if it means by hurting own self.
Well, that was one heck of an information isn’t it?
Though I am ending it here but there is more to know, learn and study on this topic. And I would love to thank Mr. Elliott again for this great idea. Check out The Single Dad’s Guide to Life if you are already bored with my mental health studies.
I will see you again soon. Till then, Take Care and Stay safe.
Heartbreak is painful because when your heart is broken, it can feel like the apocalypse. No measure of torment has ever felt so anguishing or thought. It resembles a monster opening was pulverized into your chest, with no expectation of fix. A lady who once had her heart broken can figure out how to pardon, truly, however, she will always remember how a broken heart feels. I was recently talking to some good friends of mine Dalene from Dalene Ekirapa from Dalene Ekirapa and Karen from Karen Monica with whom I have done certain previous projects earlier about it and I asked about their input on it and what they said was interesting.
For first lovers, upon suffering a heartbreak, you may find
yourself disliking men, most men of the same niche as your ex boyfriend. A case
where a boyfriend cheats on you, going to the next relationship, you will have
this prior suspicion the guy will also do the same to you.
Most times we lack appetite for food, we feel we’re good, we
deprive ourselves food, my advice, eat, even if you don’t feel like, don’t
trust your guts, you know the importance of healthy eating and drinking of
water. Remember life has to go on. You’ll soon get over it and you’ll need to
be healthy to do your routines.
Sure, you may feel like you deserve to die, like you should
kill the nerd, don’t trust yourself again. Seek advice from the few you have
If you want to get over it quickly, be as much open about it, to anyone you feel like, care less about who they’ll tell, be intentional, your aim is to get over it. Talking is by far the best therapy ever. You may shed 2-4 tears if you feel like. But never cry alone in a lonely room, it’ll dehydrate you.
To me, every heartbreak sucks at the beginning. It not only drains you emotionally but it hurts you physically as well. You are at the point where you feel that you have just lost everything (that may not be the truth in reality) but that is how the mind reacts when you get rejected.
You feel so unmotivated. It is like the world has shut you out. You look around and you feel that everyone is happy except you. You just want to be by yourself in a room and cry your heart out. And that gets you down even more.
Heartbreak is an emotional chaos. Your stress levels starts to soar high. You would avoid looking at yourself in the mirror because you look like a mess.
But all that usually happens only at the beginning phase of a heartbreak. Once you get to overcome that roller coaster period, you will start to see a newer you.
Slowly the emotional and physical pain will start to heal. The stress levels will go back to normal. You will feel emotionally stronger. The world will start to look like a much better place. You will be inspired to improve your life.
I believe that each heartbreak will nurture you to be a better and stronger person. You are still smiling and standing after all that emotional chaos, aren’t you?
Well, to be honest Karen’s question made me question myself
and then I came up with ideas how to deal with it, of course we all handle our
heartbreaks in our own way but the one I am about to mention here are the one
which will help you with the grief of heartbreak.
Take it each day by itself.
on the other hand, hell, one breath at any given moment. One minute on end.
When I was down and crushed, I couldn’t envision how on the planet I would
endure, not to mention do basically everything that I knew was coming. Contemplating
what’s to come was completely overpowering. I couldn’t do it. Rather, I simply
focused on single days. The present was excruciating, yet I remained there. I
remained with the agony as it ebbed and moved as the days progressed. What’s more,
the days crawled by, everyone a little triumph.
stories can be great, yet it’s your friends and family will’s identity a gift
from heaven during melancholy. Try not to delay to contact your loved ones
quickly when something disastrous has happened.
During my first break up (the only break up which hurt me) my mom was already dead so I talked to my dad, and a few of my close friends soon after my break up. They couldn’t influence the agony to leave, yet they tuned in and said what they could. I realized I was thought about. I realized they were concerned. Feeling that adoration advised me that I wasn’t useless. I was as yet the same me.
Discover comfort in music.
the split, I sat in an airplane terminal, tuning in to “Hurt” by
Johnny Cash, crying discreetly to myself as neglectful individuals strolled by.
It felt great to give it a chance to out. It was a piece of my recuperating
procedure. Music was another consistent, something that wouldn’t disappoint me.
I think I presumably tuned in to each tragic melody I’d at any point heard. It
wasn’t an approach to feel frustrated about myself (OK, perhaps a bit) as much
as other methods for realizing I wasn’t the only one. It was a method for
feeling all the more powerfully the torment in the tunes and verses of others,
a method for sympathizing with them and realizing they saw how I felt as well.
Keep up your daily routine
was maybe the hardest activity after what occurred—come back to my everyday
practice. Truly, I had a craving for securing myself a dim stay with ten pounds
of dessert and sucking my thumb for the following couple of months. It didn’t
appear to be conceivable to come back to my everyday life. In any case, I did,
and sooner or later, I understood that it was my standard that was restoring my
feeling of direction. In reality, doing things took my psyche off of the gap in
my chest and helped me to remember my esteem.
It takes a specific proportion of confidence to fall into a dark opening of torment, grab around carelessly for some time, and in the long run develop. My circumstance felt without anything positive. It appeared as though there was nothing to hang my cap on. However, someplace, profound inside me, I figured out how to discover the mettle to trust that things would be better once more. I trusted that life would not neglect me. I trusted I could endure the hardship, and following a couple of months, the skyline didn’t look so distressing any longer. I started to leave the past where it was intended to be—behind me—and to discover fulfillment in the present.
Well at the end, I would just say that maybe it is hard to move on but not impossible.
I would love to know your thoughts too about this so let me know.
Psychopaths are everywhere. Many are violent criminals but many more are not. You can find them everywhere: in the office next door, at school, or while dating. They are EVERYWHERE.
A psychopath is defined as someone who inflicts pain, misery and sometimes death on others with no conscience or empathy. No one knows exactly what causes psychopathy. Psychopathy is also sometimes known as psychopathic personality disorder and is considered a mental illness. As with mental illness in general, there is no known cure for psychopathy.
In short, psychopaths are predators, and we are prey, and they feel as much compassion and empathy for others as wolves feel for sheep. They lie, manipulate, bully, and seduce to get what they want, caring nothing for those they trample in the process. Given these characteristics, it’s no wonder that even non-violent psychopaths leave a trail of shattered lives in their wakes. They are the unscrupulous coworker who plays the boss, takes credit for your work, and stabs you in the back with a smile. The charmer who moves in with a girlfriend, sucks her dry financially, and then cruelly spits her out and moves on. Emotionally leaves a person dead by mentally torturing them and then pretend to be victims.
So what can you do to identify a psychopath?
First, it’s important to understand how psychopaths operate, so you don’t think you’re imagining things when a charming, harmless-looking colleague acts in a more ruthless and unscrupulous manner than you could otherwise possibly imagine. And the more you know about yourself—your vulnerabilities and your potential value to whomever might attempt to use you—the better off you’ll be. Also, judge people by their actions, not their words. For example, does a romantic partner promise you riches while constantly borrowing your money? Finally, get second opinions. A psychopath who wants to use you will find a way to win you over, but may show more of his or her true self to your friends and colleagues. If you get repeated warnings that the person you’re dealing with isn’t what he or she seems, consider investigating further.
As population densities increase and tensions rise, society is increasingly vulnerable to those who are utterly ruthless and without conscience. While there are no easy answers when it comes to the psychopaths among us, the better we can understand what makes a psychopath tick, the better we can protect ourselves from the destructive impact of this condition.
That’s all for this week. See you next week until then Stay Safe and Take Care.
For references you can also visit www.physiciansnews.com & www.scienceofpeople.com
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I was going through an article on www.youthkiawaaz.com, that what are the stereotypes about working women, two points caught my eyes because I can relate to them. Which are:
1: Women With Ambitions Are Somehow Of Bad Character And Attract Unnecessary Attention From Men.
2: Careers For Women Are Also Pre-defined – Teaching, Nursing, Medical Doctors. Not Acceptable – Journalism, TV, Field Reporting, Etc.
Well in my case I am from a small town in West Bengal. I don’t stay at my hometown anymore because of my career.
In 2017 in the same hometown of mine I started facing some issues regarding bank, so I asked for help from an almost influential person. Whereas, when it came to the solution of that problem the person whom I approached ofcourse told everyone he was helping me because I was spotted with him on our way to the bank.
He couldn’t help obviously. So I gave up on him. On the very next day he called me up and then used these words, “Women are not fit enough for journalism and tv” (I used to work in a channel at that point of time) and he didn’t help me because that could have affected his family’s reputation. I didn’t answer him back because I didn’t want to get into any argument. Later on, on my gutts I solved that issue.
After some days he texted and apologised for his words.
Later on he started discussing my work related stuff with me.
One fine day he told me “Ladies who work don’t have a good character and you can easily sleep with people to reach somewhere”. I replied with a smiling smiley and blocked him from everywhere. Tbh that day, I wanted to break his face. Because during my entire career it was known by people who worked with me that I had been a hard worker.
Well, to be straight forward enough, ladies don’t need to sleep around to reach somewhere. That is what some people don’t understand due to their cheap mentality.
There are more stereotypes. If you have male friends, you don’t have a character. You work late at night you are characterless. These issues are not only faced by ladies in cities but small town girls mostly face it.
Many girls from my hometown or other small towns come to me till date with same issue which they face in their area because these girls dared to work in a challenging field. Some are my juniors. Some know me somehow.
Only suggestion which I have always given and I still give is: An empty mind is devil’s workshop and people who are unable to achieve anything will always criticise you.
There are two major reasons for their way of thinking these stuff are: either they never had a working lady in a challenging field at home or they couldn’t take advantage of you.
In my case it was the second thing.
Ladies never let these people get into your mind. If you are truly careeristic ignore it. Your career should matter to you not what these people say.
It’s your life be daring enough to take your own decisions and fight for it. Because ladies always remember you are worth it.