Clothes Men Can Wear To Impress Ladies

This is a guest post by a creative entrepreneur Jael Perkins. She is currently based in Minnesota. She is also a fashion and cosmetology student. She has been blogging since 2014 and has successfully worked with over 40 brands.

Jael Perkins

GENTLEMEN,

Want to do something special for your lady this season? Change up your style. In this post I am going to share some styling tips that will be sure to impress your woman. 

Casual: When you’re planning a casual look it is best to keep it simple. A button down shirt and a pair of jeans can never do you wrong. T-shirts are acceptable if paired with either boots or some sort of outerwear. 

Jamie Dornan in Casual clothes. Image courtesy: Google

Formal: A formal look doesn’t have to be the norm (tuxedo). You can always spice up your look by wearing a button down shirt and dress pants. A light but fancy outerwear is sure to make you stand out. I especially love when guys risk it all and wear colors that are considered feminine like pink, red, orange and so on. Those colors make you stand out because it’s not very common to see a guy wearing them. Accessories also play a very big role in the look being complete. Wristwatch, chain, necklace or even rings add a little bit of jazz to the look.

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Fragrances: A nice scent is an attention grabber, not only does it secure the attention of the lady you’re trying to talk to but it makes others feel like you’re important. Researchers in Europe published a study about personality and individual differences of journal about men and women’s mate selection factor and scents were top of the list.

Well fitted jeans: Jeans are timeless clothing items. Any guy regardless of age or body type needs a good pair in his closet. The versatility of jeans is what makes it very important. It has the power to dress up or dress down a look and can take you many places.  

Shahrukh Khan.
Image courtesy: Google

Stylish footwear: I have always said that shoes are the window to your style. Based on your shoes women can interpret a number of things before you even start talking. Flimsy shoes make you look cheap, worn out shoes seems like you don’t care about yourself but stylish Oxfords, Monk Straps and Italian leather shows that you’ve got a good taste. And they are worth investing in.

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V-neck sweaters: V-neck sweater has an edge over crew neck because of the versatility. You can wear a plain white V-neck and it doesn’t resemble an undershirt. The shape makes your cheekbones appear wider than your jawline, which gives you an athletic look and stronger appeal.

Shahrukh Khan.
Image courtesy: Google

Last but not least, confidence. You can wear the fanciest of clothes and have all the money but a woman will always know when you are insecure. Accept who you truly are and understand that no matter how you present yourself you’re still the best. Own your look, own your style and own who you are and everything else will fall in place.

My Point of View

Though I like men in formals because they are absolute turn ons, but still, I liked whatever Jael suggested. Confidence for sure makes a man perfect. For more on fashion, you can check out Jael’s blog Simply Jaelicious

So what are your thoughts on Ms Perkin’s suggestion let me know in the comment below.

See you soon again. Till then take care.

Tips to Use Bronzer

Bronzer is a popular product for make-up lovers yet it is pretty famous. Bronzer is generally utilized to imitate a sun-kissed gleam and upgrade a tan. Bronzing cosmetics can be utilized to obscure zones of the skin without covering it, or to include warmth. Bronzer is an awesome method to make your skin look brilliant and solid.

Firstly, you have to locate a bronzer that really coordinates your skin tone (truly, we have an exhaustive guide) to relieve your odds of resembling a Cheeto.  At that point, delicately rub a cushy mixing brush over the bronzer, tap off any abundance, and twirl it in little concentric circles over your hairline, from one sanctuary to the next.

Contouring your cheekbones is route less demanding than you’ve been persuaded. Simply reload your brush in bronzer, swipe a line of powder from your ear to the apple of your cheek, at that point tenderly mix it out utilizing little round brush strokes, as opposed to a forward and backward wiper movement.

After dusting the hairline and cheekbones, completely off the edge by mixing more bronzer along the edge of your jawline, whirling from the base of your jaw to the jaw. Make a point to straddle the edge of your jaw bone—instead of applying all the bronzer to the side of your face—at that point keep mixing under your button and down your neck.

Powder bronzers (as opposed to cream bronzers) are so sheer, they won’t abandon you with a ulta-thin, self-evident looking lines. Compass atouch of bronzer down each side of your nose (make a point to tap off the abundance from your brush, first) for an unpretentious shape.

Special Thanks to Susan Yara  from New Beauty Magazine for the pictures.

So dear make up loving beautiful ladies I hope this is going to help you a lot.

See you soon again…

Let It Go

If you have read my last post about my encounter on Suicide Bridge you should (I guess) remember whatever I have been through. 

However, some time has passed after that and as I was busy with my business as well as with my profession I could not blog that much. However, on 4th December night, I remember I was on the train on my way to Ahmedabad, Gujrat (India) for some meeting stuff these memories came back to my mind.

Just to divert my mind when I logged in to facebook from my phone I saw something that made me believe that whatever happened to me or with me on Suicide bridge was not to harm me but to warn me that I was about to face. 

Remember I mentioned about that only person or “friend” whom I could think of on that situation on suicide bridge? I faced betrayal, treachery, the blame of falsification from that person. I was blamed about something which hurt me, and I have already decided to lodge a complaint against myself because he would not. I know I never did anything, but only if…  😢

 

However, about my Suicide Bridge experience, I now feel that it was a warning that was given to me that night which I could not understand. Have I not been so stupid, I would have realized earlier that I am about to be a scapegoat.

But I do not regret being a scapegoat. I regret that how could I not understand what was going to happen to with me. 

I do not know what entity was that but I am really thankful to it.

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However, after 4th December 3 good things happened and my life is back on track.

I received an award for blogging on Mental Health awareness, you can now google my blog for mental illness and find me easily. 

2ndly I finally got transferred to the Educational Counseling department as a Student Psychologist. 😊😊

Yayyy..!!! 😂😂😂😂

And lastly, I am back with the person for whom I had waited for so long. Yes, we had our share of issues and heck a lot of fights, I was misguided by people who I thought were my well-wishers. Moreover, I am happy now and I guess whatever happens there is always a definite reason behind that.😉 

Well, I still do not date but I believe in love. Always did.

Because you never know 😊😉

3 most haunted places In L.A

As you all know that I was not of blogging as I was out of India. So during the middle of November when I was in Los Angeles, I had an anxiety attack. So I reached LA on 13th and instead of a 2-day trip, it became a 10-day trip. I came back on the 24th of November.

Anyways coming back to the point. As I promised earlier I visited some of the spooky places in LA so here goes everything in details.

Linda Vista Hospital

This is located in downtown LA. It was closed in 1991. The story of this place goes like, Linda Vista Hospital was first established in 1904. By the 1970s and ’80s, the groups of East LA sent a constant flow of discharge wounds and stabbings through Linda Vista’s entry ways. The area was deteriorating, just like the survival rate of patients conceded.

The expansion in poor and uninsured patients inflicted significant damage on the doctor’s facility, and in 1988, Linda Vista quit tolerating ambulances in their ER. The nature of consideration kept on declining as specialists moved to more prosperous doctor’s facilities,and the Linda Vista attempted to remain above water.

In 1991 the last patient looked at Vista. While most trust the doctor’s facility shut because of an absence of assets, there are stories flowing that the clinic’s uncommonly high passing rate was because of abuse and misuse.

My review: I visited there with a friend, Shirlyn (who has shifted to the USA after her marriage). I did not feel anything extremely weird. However, my friend felt someone touching her hairs. She became quite uncomfortable so before we could proceed with anything further we had to leave. 

Wonderland Murders House

This is located in 8763 Wonderland Avenue in the Laurel Canyon section of Los Angeles. The story goes as in 1981, pornography star John Holmes executed four street pharmacists with a lead pipe. The killings were said to be exact retribution for taking from medication boss Eddie Nash. Before we visited it we were warned about the angry ghosts in there who are mean to the visitors there. I wanted to go alone after the previous incidents with my friend but she did not let me.

My Review: As I said earlier that I wanted to go alone after the previous incidents with my friend but she did not let me. I got a weird sensation on my forehead but I cannot say paranormal to it. However, Shirlyn behind me fell down. According to her, someone pushed her and she heard some voices. I tried using the recorder there but I did not get back any response.

Colorado Blvd. Bridge

This is located in 504 W Colorado Blvd, Pasadena, C.A. As the story leads, it was built in 1912, and Suicide Bridge was once part of Route 66. The first occasion when somebody hopped off the scaffold was in 1919 and there have been around 100 aggregate. A considerable lot of the suicides happened amid the Great Depression, yet many still happen right up till the present time. It is said that numerous apparitions frequent the extension and the lights regularly go out during the evening.

My Review: I visited there alone. Did not take my friend. Nothing I could feel was dangerous. I stayed there for some hours but nothing happened. After 10:30pm when I started leaving that place something weird happened, it suddenly felt like as if someone or something was draining my peace and happiness out of the air around me. I felt like as if every good feeling, every happy memory was being sucked out. I started walking. I had no idea where exactly I was going. My head started spinning then I dont know what exactly came to my mind, I texted a blogger whom I knew once. Then I don’t remember anything.

When I woke up I was in a health center. I asked the nurses that where am I, they told me that I am in Huntington Hospital. I don’t know what came to my mind I did something.

I used to like a blogger but I pushed him away for his own good, I checked his blog and something/some post I saw that triggered my anxiety, then I had an attack again and I fainted as they told me later.

Next time when I woke up my friend Shirlyn was there already, (she told me I texted her, in my phone there was no evidence of that but her phone showed my text). I told her that I need to get out of the hospital. She and her husband spoke to the authorities and by the next day I was out of the hospital. As soon as I was out I went back to my hotel packed my bag and booked tickets for the next morning flight to come back home. 

Till now, I wonder why I again wanted him, we never dated but I liked him, yes it did not go well between us so I pushed him away but there, on that bridge it made me feel as if I really wanted him back, it felt like as if I am in deep pain and there were symptoms as if I am falling apart, but I was never in love with him because it is not my forte. I had his memories flowing through my mind, both good and bad, mostly bad. Why did I just have my harsh memories of him I do not have any answer to that. To be honest I had this dire wish to meet him, see him but I was getting a wierd vibe. Reason was, it all started happening once I went there on the suicide bridge in search of paranormal. Yes he would like to meet me me but something (I do not know what) felt very wrong. I suppressed my feeling and left America and came back home.

Still I would not say that suicide bridge is haunted, maybe it is just the pain of the passed away people that made me emotionally vulnerable, that hit me bad through my unconsious mind. There are many psychological as well as parapsychological reasons for whatever happened. But yes, someday I will again go back there and this time I will come back with answers no matter what.

So that was all from me for this week. Stay Blessed, Stay Safe and Take Care.

I would love to know your thoughts on this…

Thank you see you soon.

What is a Panic Attack?

Panic attack is the sudden beginning of serious dread or inconvenience that achieves a top inside minutes and incorporates no less than four of the accompanying manifestations: Palpitations, beating heart, or quickened pulse. Perspiring. Trembling or shaking. Impressions of shortness of breath or covering.

In spite of the fact that the correct reasons for or inconvenience are unclear, the inclination to have it keeps running in families, for example, the passing of a friend or family member, separation, or employment misfortune can likewise trigger the panic attack. It than four be of breath caused by therapeutic conditions and other physical causes.

There are several symptoms of panic attack some of which areas follows:

Racing heart.

Feeling powerless, black out, or woozy.

Shivering or deadness in the hands and fingers.

The feeling of dread, or looming fate or passing.

Feeling sweat-soaked or having chills.

Chest torments.

Breathing challenges.

Feeling lost control.

There are seven ways to stop panic attack, which are:

Utilize profound relaxing.

Perceive that you’re having a fit of anxiety.

Close your eyes.

Practice meditation.

Learn to focus on positive things.

Utilize muscle unwinding procedures.

Picture being happy.

For the treatment of Panic Attack, Behavioral therapy and medication both are recommended.

That’s all for today. See you again soon…

Why did I stop Dating

After reading this topic many might think that I will blabber the same thing that the guys I dated had this issue or that issue but no, this is different. I have dated a heck lot of men but it did not work out. It has been 2 years since I have stopped dating and here goes the prime reasons.

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Touch me Not: When someone likes someone (regardless of gender) and they date obviously they want to touch, kiss the other person. In my case, I do not like anyone touching or kissing. I do not even prefer holding hands. Leave alone in reality not even virtually (if you can understand what I mean). I know it sounds weird but I am not at all comfortable.

Being ‘Extra’ Sweet: Of course, people love when the other person is being sweet to them or wants to know all about them. I am ok with that but when it comes to texting or calling that too 24*7 asking “Honey, you had lunch”, “Honey had dinner?” honey this, honey that; I am NOT okay. C’mon give me a break! I do not think this is sweet, according to me this is stalking. I mean now if I have to go to washroom do I need to tell the other person. This is utterly a shit and I do not tolerate this.

Behavioral Change: I have noticed this thing in men and women both when they want someone they would do anything so that they like them back and once it happens all of a sudden they become way too busy. I understand people might have busy lives and my schedule is an example for the ones who know me but if someone really means something to you no matter how busy you are you will find out a little time for them. If you cannot give them your precious time better STAY AWAY! In my case even after warning for several times if I still see that the person is coming up with excuses, no matter how much I like him, I walk away.

Overly Possessive: We all know being a little bit possessive is alright, but overly possessive? Trust me, IT SUCKS…! During my college days, I was dating a guy who had a problem with whenever anyone called me over the phone and my call went on waiting mode, even if it was my dad. I was made to cut contacts with all my friends and I was not even allowed to talk to my girl-friends. Very soon he got on my nerves and I dumped him.

Do NOT tell me what to do: Just because someone is dating me or I am dating someone that does not give us the right to interfere in our personal matters or family matters unless asked for. Try doing this and you are straight out of sight and out of mind.

Don’t ask me: I expect people to understand me rather than asking me. Yes there might be misunderstandings but if I really care about someone I would clarify it or give explanation. If I dont care enough then, “Get lost dude”.

Why Me? : People change, I do agree with that but why do I have to call or text someone always. When they wanted me and my time, they never got bored with me or had time for me during ‘their’ busy hours but now no time? Isn’t it simply great? As one of my blogging friend Daisy, told me once, “If a man wants you, he’ll call, he’ll text, he’ll cross the oceans and be there for you. Everything else is just an excuse.”, this is very true. Darling, you expect me to do it then why can’t you?

So in my case whenever this happens I observe them for a week then solely stop contacting or I make sure that they just ‘damn’ leave. It hurts, yes but mental peace is way more important to me. But once again, of course, I am not cutting them out of my life, I just cannot hurt my self-respect anymore. I am there for them if they need me because I know them. I know a lot of people, I just don’t make friends.

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See, I know I have issues and I accept them. All men are not as bad as often pictured, yes there are issues from both the sides and maybe we all are right from our own point of view. However, I always say that I am not good. Some say I am paranoid and some say that I may have an inferiority complex but I do not have any, I just accept myself the way I am. I can’t say sugar coated words, I can’t be pretentious. If that makes me bad then yes I am. 

However, I also believe that if 2 people are meant to be together nothing can come between them. No matter how bad the time is or how much complicated you are.

So be you. Accept yourself the way you are. Love yourself with all your complications because believe me no one on earth can love you more than you can.

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Speak Up!

Incident 1

She: Why do I have to text you always? Why isn’t there any initiation from your side?

He: I have been really busy.

She: You are always busy. Sorry for bothering you.

He: I never said that you bother me. I am sorry if I have made you feel so.

She: You know what love, you have changed.

He: Love, I am really trying not to.

She: Take Care.

Incident 2

He: Look, I am not an insomniac like you are. I just can’t.

She: Did I ever ask you to?

He: No you never asked but you always wanted it.

She: Don’t misinterpret me. I know you have a hard life but I work too.

He: You actually never understood me.

She (hurt): If that makes you happy, then fine.

And then she stopped texting him. All because she felt she was ignored and she was tired of getting hurt. Whereas he remained confused that where he went wrong, he never wanted to hurt her.

Now………….. You must be thinking that the guy got bored with her. Believe me, she might have thought the same. Maybe his feelings vanished and he was unaware of that.

It is very natural, it happens. The thing which those two did not understand that disappeared between them was communication. He should have simply conveyed to her whatever was going on his mind but he did not open up no matter whatever the reasons had been. And she remained stubborn because it would hurt her ego too for further argument. As a result, she was hurt enough to walk away, and he kept on misunderstanding her. A story that could have a beautiful climax had a painful ending.

Look we like people, fall in love, sometimes feelings stay, sometimes it vanishes, unwillingly may be. Rollo May said in one of his quotes, “Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.”. So rather than avoiding the other person speak up whatever is going on your mind because communication can solve any problem and it gives a closure too. A closure is imperative so that every individual can grieve and afterward proceed on with their lives.

 
 

 

One suggestion to everyone, no matter what you feel, what you want to do just SPEAK UP! Do not keep a person hanging because it may affect them in a way where their self-confidence may get affected.

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I think that is all for today on withlovemoni today for you all.  Try not to hurt anyone, because not everybody is strong enough as they might claim to be.

Take care

Oh, by the way, check out David Elliott’s blog Single Dad’s guide to life because I am extremely thankful to him for the dialogues I used here above, all the credit for the dialogues goes to him and he is too lovely.