This connection can be with a friend, a sibling, a parent, a lover or a child. It can be whoever you want it to be. The connection is remarkable and unique and weird. These sort of connections can be both romantic and platonic in their behavior. I am not a hopeless romantic person, I believe in facts. Everything has a reason so there are certain parts of this soulmate theory as per research. Now before you think of Mr. Freud’s Dream Analysis theory then let me tell you this is completely different from that, because subconscious mind cannot predict about what some unknown person is going to face in their future so I am leaving it in Paranormal niche.
The weirdest thing about these sort of connections is that these people will always remain connected to you somehow or other. Let me tell you a short story that will help you to have a clear picture of it. Obviously, it features me.
I was in my first year in 2012, there was a competition in our college and there was a judge who was/is a senior reporter in a well-known newspaper, (let’s call him T). Everything started with an argument, so we both disliked eachother. Well, that was the starting. He found me somehow on Facebook and that too because he was a good friend of one of my cousin brother, both my cousin bro and Mr. T is 7 years older than me. This time when our paths crossed on my cousin brother’s post again we argued. According to me he was an arrogant womanizer and according to him I was a brat. He hated my guts.
Well, as time passed by we became friends. We exchanged nos. I was his very first friend who was a girl and he trusted/trusts me, which was/is weird to him because he never trusted any other female apart from his female family members.
We used to talk daily. He used to tell me about his girlfriends (every month he had a new one) and I basically talk less so I used to listen to him.
In 2013 I still remember, I was in a forceful abusive relationship with a narcissist and Mr. T knew that I was unable to tell that to my dad but still he kept on insisting. One night we were talking via phone by mistake my narcissist boyfriend’s slipped out of my tongue instead of Mr. T’s name. His reaction was weird and he reminded me that his name is T, I noticed a sadness in his voice but when I asked the same he disconnected the call. I did not think much of that. After an hour he called me up and directly asked me to choose any one. I was in awe. He knew the situation but still he wanted that. I could not choose any. He said that was the last time we were talking and disconnected again. I tried contacting him but he never responded.
1 year later on 13th July 2014 at 1:38 am (I remember the specific date and time because it was one of the most shocking day of my life) Mr. T called, I did not see the number on true-caller as I was working on a new story. As I received the call, I heard his voice and my mind stopped working. I asked him what he required, he proposed. I was shocked because I never thought that he would do that. However, he was already dating someone, but he never knew that I knew. I knew because that girl was creepy AF. She spammed my fb and Instagram by continuously sending messages. I never accepted his proposal but we agreed on remaining friends (obviously I missed him).
This time too after a few months of extreme good friendship one night he finally confessed that he was indeed dating that creepy girl to move on from me because according to him he had loved me since 2013. On 13th July ’14 he proposed me on that first interaction because he was afraid that I will get to know about the girl. I tried reasoning with him, he said that I had changed and become cold, which leaded to an argument and this time I left.
On 9th February 2015, I clearly remember, I was at work, all of a sudden I started feeling sad. As if I’m about to lose something, I had this feeling one night before my mom died, so I was worried about my dad. Around 8 or 8:30 pm Mr. T called and said he was getting married, it was a sudden arrange marriage. He also said that he did not want to get married and suggested that I fly down to his city and exchange my place with the bride. I laughed, we both knew it was not possible. He got married and we were in regular touch until one day his wife found my contact and contacted me just to tell me that I was the reason her husband would not share a room with him. I felt bad because no matter what he felt towards me for me he was my friend. I decided to walk away and I did.
After that there were some unwanted incidents, which till date persists.
1: In 2016 in April when my dad died, me, my best friend and my business partner did his last rites. I went to office the very next day. I did not share this with my colleagues as I hate sympathy. Mr. T did not have my new phone no or any details. He mailed me on my usual mail id asking if I was ok, he felt something was wrong with me. I did not reply.
2: In 2017 on 25th of May I met with a disastrous accident and was in ventilation for 5 days. When I recovered and was discharged I saw his mails, heck lot of mails it was dated on the same day of my accident. I replied him, he asked me if I had been in an accident or had any surgery because he dreamt of it and also saw that I was dying. I told him about my accident. Then he told me that now he was over me so we can continue to be friends.
3: In the middle of 2018 something new happened to me. It was related to a blogger, if he reads it he will get it. I was already having my own personal life issues, one night I suddenly dreamt of this blogger guy. I felt weird because no matter whatever I am going through even if I dream I only dream about work, because that is my only true love and life and dreaming of a blogger whom I never met was weird and the dream was utter shit, I saw that he fell and got hurt. I woke up soaked in my own sweat, my air conditioner was on 16. I texted that guy via
On the other side of the world, Mr. T on that same night dreamt that something would hurt me.
4: Next dream I had about this blogger guy having issues with car. Next day he had it.
5: Then I again dreamt of this guy and this time it was weird I saw he was ill and storming was pulling him away. I texted him and yup he was sick. Now, in the meanwhile Mr. T dreamt that some friend is going to hurt me bad and he warned me.
I was/am already a workaholic insomniac and these dreams made me way terrified and I was afraid to sleep. My senior doc when I discussed it with him he runned a few tests on me and said I was just overthinking.
I knew I was not, I just wanted these things to stop, those freaking dreams to end. It ended, may be because the last day I had the issue I saw him stabbing me. And indeed a week later he blamed me for falsification which pissed me off.
I thought that it was over, but now even if I do feel, but I do not communicate it to him. Because he will blame me of some new stuff. Just yesterday, on 18th I met with a small car accident because I had a weird feeling while working earlier that day and I texted him if he was alright, obviously he did not respond and as I was thinking if he had been ok or not that too while driving on highway where meanwhile a drunk driver hit my car badly near Bengal Chemical in Kolkata. Though I am fine but my nose is not.
Now after reading this entire semi-detailed report I guess you can understand that this connection type of thing is may sound sweet and all but it is a risky and dangerous thing.
So stay safe, and Take care. And about the narcissistic relationship
P.S I updated the story of me and my friend Mr. T after taking permission from him. 😊😉